Restocking

 There was some thunder and rain overnight. I didn't hear it, but Di had a disturbed night and was able to report on the overnight weather when I woke up. I went down to make her some tea and to grab my first coffee. I then settled down with the news until she was ready to come downstairs. (I'm happy for her to potter around on her own, but won't allow her to do the stairs with me being present.)

I had my usual call with the cousins. The highlight for me was when Red Tim explained that he had bought an air conditioning unit for £500. He went on to say that it wasn't too expensive when you think he would pay £50 for a good night's sleep, and consequently, it would pay for itself in 3 nights! While you think about the maths behind that statement, I suggested to him that he clearly has the credentials to be our next Chancellor of the Exchequer.

With the call finished, I completed this week's shopping list. Having checked there was nothing Di needed me to do and extracted a promise that she would be sensible in my absence, I collected Maureen and headed for Sainsbury's. (With Chris still being in the hospital, she has no transport, so I offered to take her along when I went.) Despite the horrendous problems that Sainsbury's has had with their freezers and chillers, most things seemed to be back to normal. There was no frozen food (but I didn't need any), but everything else was available. 

I dropped Maureen and her shopping, then went home to unpack and stow all of our stuff. By the time I was finished, it was time to help Diane downstairs for some lunch.

We had a quiet afternoon. Di did her physio exercises, and then chatted with Kim on the phone. I grabbed some Kindle time until it was time to start on dinner.

Dressing

 After another hot and steamy night, I was up at 6:30, ready to enjoy a very cool shower. Once dressed, I made a tea for Diane and sat down with my coffee. She came down in time for her morning injection and a coffee.

As usual, I went to Zoe's to collect Ellie. There was a bit of a panic when Zoe couldn't entice Beau back in the house, so eventually she decided to leave her back door open, knowing that her neighbour was home and would keep an eye on the house. We also checked that the security cameras had the approach covered.

I dropped Ellie off at school and went home for breakfast. My plan was to work through the ironing, but first I had to help Di back upstairs so she could get washed and dressed. It was later in the morning, as I was finishing the ironing, that she called down. There was some seepage from her dressing, and there seemed to be a split in the dressing itself. After a very brief debate, she phoned the hospital, and they made an appointment for her to have it checked, mid-afternoon.

We had some time to kill, so I helped her wash her hair before we grabbed some lunch. When we arrived at the hospital, she was seen almost immediately. The old dressing was removed, everything was checked and given a clean bill, and the wound was redressed with a similar dressing protected with a compression bandage. We have to return on Tuesday for a "wound check".

Back home, Di went upstairs to do her physio exercises and have a rest. Soon after, Kim arrived. She had been to the doctor and was due to return for a test later, so she came to see Mum. She wasn't with her for long as the doctor phoned to bring forward the time of the test. No doubt we'll hear more from her later.

Adjusting

 We slept well last night, despite the heat. I was up soon after 6:30 and took Di a cup of tea. Di was ready to come downstairs at 7:30 as she had to take her morning injection before 8:00. Soon after, I left her when I went to collect Ellie and take her to school. It was remarkable (and rather pathetic) how many parents had decided to keep their kids away from school because of the heat. The absenteeism was so bad that the school have cancelled tomorrow's sports day, even though the temperature is forecast to be in the mid-20s, which is nothing special. The epithet "snowflakes" seems remarkably appropriate at this juncture.

Di went upstairs soon after I returned. Once washed and dressed, she settled on the bed to do her exercises and to stay out of Lottie's way while she cleaned the ground floor. I sorted out a couple of loads of washing and got them out on the line to dry, then settled at the computer to update some of my Raspberry Pi documentation (now that NetAlertX is working properly).

We had a quiet afternoon. I went to collect Ellie and brought her home to see Nana. Zoe wasn't far behind, and she popped in for a chat before leaving with Ellie. Di continued with some physio exercises and spent a while walking around the lounge and family room. She is clearly making good progress and seems to have the pain under control.

Home Free

It was a hot night, but I slept pretty well. I was up soon after 6:30 and pottered about until it was time to walk to Zoe's and collect Ellie for school. She was a bit concerned by the heat, but I convinced her that there was little you can do to change it, so try to ignore it. The more you think about it, the more it will trouble you. 

I headed straight home. There was some vacuuming and some tidying up to do so that there were no obstacles on the floor when Di came home. I was nearly caught out when I got a phone call at 10:30 to say that Di had been discharged. I grabbed my sunglasses and car keys and headed off to Chichester. They were just finishing a briefing on the meds when I arrived. We packed her stuff and loaded the car. A porter wheeled her down, and we whizzed off home.

Once home, I took the bare essentials upstairs, and Di went up for a rest. Fortunately, she was able to sleep and though she had a bad night last night was able to get about 4 hours during the afternoon. Soon after she woke up, Denise called, and they had a brief chat. She has resolved to call again tomorrow.

Meanwhile, at Sainsbury's, there was chaos as the fridges and freezers had broken down and the gas canisters had drained. Zoe would be delayed, so I had to collect Ellie from school and bring her back here. Ellie was not amused. However, after some time with Nana, she snapped out of it and was her usual self. I gave her dinner, and as she was finishing up, Zoe arrived. All was well in Ellie's world.

We had a very quiet evening, having moved some furniture so Di could sit on a more appropriate chair than the usual Stressless recliner.

Physio

I was up early. I was showered, dressed and drinking my first coffee before six. Why? I have no idea. Ellie was dropped off 30 minutes later, and after an initial chat, she had some breakfast. She went upstairs to wash and dress, and came back down to watch the highlights of yesterday's World Cup games before school. It was clearly going to be another hot one today, so I made sure she had suitable hydration with her.

Back home, I grabbed breakfast and looked at my overnight mail. I had received a note from the author of NetAlertX. It seems that I was chasing a known problem, inasmuch as the code will not work in the Safari browser. I downloaded Firefox and bingo, everything worked.

At lunchtime, I went to the hospital to catch up with Diane. She had experienced a rough night as her blood pressure had been quite low, and they ended up calling the on-call doctor, who, in turn, called the anaesthetist. After about 4 hours of interventions, she was stable again. When I arrived, she was eating lunch and had already been up and about with the physio. She was also freshly back from the check X-ray.

During the afternoon, we saw the physio again, and he was amazed by how well Di was doing. Even after he had gone, Di asked me to take her for a walk along the corridor and back. She did tire during the afternoon, and I suggested she had a nap while I finished my book. Needless to say, she was soon disturbed by the next request for observations, but she did try again later.

The way things are going, the doctors and physios are fairly convinced she will be coming home tomorrow.

I left soon after six, only to be greeted by another one of Jasper's packages when I got in. Once that was dealt with, I cracked open a beer and cooked my dinner.

Another scam message arrived: "NatWest Verification £456.63 sent to Nationwide acct ending 4726 is pending confirmation. Reply YES to approve. Not recognized? Call 0800 088 4909." 

Guess what? I suspect that NatWest is unlikely to message me from Morocco (+212). Additionally, Google informs me: "widely reported as a common Wangiri (one-ring) or international phishing scam."

Knees up

 We were up early. Di had to have a slice of toast and a cup of tea before seven. After that, she could only sip water. At least we didn't have to be at the hospital for seven!

It was clear that today was going to be a hot one. There wasn't a cloud in the sky, and it was already in the low 20s at 08:30. I went to Zoe's to collect Ellie and take her to school. She was a bit subdued at first, but soon perked up.  Having left her walking into class, I headed home for some breakfast while Di was in the shower (as she couldn't eat, I didn't want to torment her with my porridge and banana).

We spent a quiet morning checking that she had everything she would need for her spa break. We drove to the hospital at midday and checked in. There was then a procession of visitors... her nurse, the ward hostess, the pharmacy assistant, the pharmacist, the anaesthetist, and finally the surgeon. Loaded with all the information we could possibly want, we just had to sit and wait for a couple of hours until it was Di's turn on stage.

At 15:20, they came to take her to the theatre for her cameo performance. I then had a couple of hours Kindle-time while waiting to hear the thunderous applause as she took her bow and returned triumphantly with her new knee. The surgeon had commented that the whole procedure went smoothly and offered no surprises. The bed was wheeled back into the room and, much to my amazement, Di was awake and quite alert. Once her butler and various acolytes had left, we chatted for a while. I could see she was tiring, so I left her to rest and came home. I will return tomorrow after lunch.

Family Day

 Today has been Father's Day, but I see it more as Family Day. It's not about me, as a father; it's about the pleasure of being a father and the pride and love that I feel for my girls.

Unfortunately, Zoe was working, but Kim was able to come along with Jon and join us for lunch. We sat and chatted for a few hours, and having finished lunch, migrated out to the garden. Eventually, they had to leave to get home for the dogs, who had been shut inside all day.

Zoe had planned to pop in when Ellie got back from Pete's. She was called back into work, however, and Ellie got dropped off with us. Eventually, Di took Ellie home for a shower and hairwash and to wait for Zoe. Fortunately, she wasn't too long.

There has been confusion over the time at which Di has to present at the hospital tomorrow (conflicting emails from the hospital). She managed to get through to the ward and check. We now have some clarity and she doesn't need to be there until lunchtime.

Bugging

 Though warm and dry, today didn't really become bright and sunny until the afternoon. We had a quiet morning, with the exception of my call with the cousins. The primary subject of contention during the call was Chris's ongoing problems with the passport office. I tuned out. There was little I could say that would have added value.

Di had a plan for the day. There was a short list of tasks (predominantly in the garden) she wanted to clear prior to Monday's hospital trip. One of them, the clearing of blanket weed from the rill, I could help with, so I dug a couple of kilos of green sludge from the rill and topped it up with fresh water.

The rest of the day was spent in front of the computer. I was trying to fill in more details regarding the home network in the NetAlertX monitor. This took ages. The final problem that I hit was that when it tried to draw the network, it wouldn't complete the names of the devices. It only showed the "wiring". This was bugging me, so I spent several hours trying to solve this and, in the end, broke the whole system. I resolved to start again tomorrow, went into the kitchen, and poured a beer.

That was it for the day. 

Summer Fayre

 We were up at our normal time. Well rested, but up and about early. We had a quiet hour or so before wandering to Zoe's to collect Ellie for school. She was running a bit late, having decided at 8:25 that she wanted some toast, and we usually leave at 8:30. ~Despite this, we got her to school just as the classroom doors opened.

Di went home to prepare for her Cardiac Rehab session while I set off for my walk. The sun was beating down, it was a comfortable 19 °C,  and there wasn't a cloud in the sky. It was a delightful walk as I looped around the estate a few times. When I arrived home, I had some breakfast and then got on with some domestic chores. Once Di had returned, I took the car to Zoe's and gave her a lift to Sainsbury's so she could get a Father's Day card for Ellie to give to Pete. We spent some time chatting with Jason, her manager, and then I dropped her off at home.

As I pulled up, Di was just leaving to help Zoe with the vacuuming upstairs. I sorted out a few more domestic chores and then returned to the work I had been doing on my network monitor.

After we had some lunch, we retired to the lounge (the Orangery was too hot) for some Kindle time. Today, the school had its Summer Fayre, so we collected Ellie and waited to be allowed into the festivities. They had put on a good show, with plenty of stalls, some selling treats, some offering challenges of various types, and there was an ice cream van and a pizza van. We hung around and tried our hand at various challenges. After 30 minutes or so, we left and took Ellie back to Zoe's so that she would be ready when Pete picked her up for the weekend.

Windows

 I was up at 6:30. There was no real need, but I was wide awake, and it seemed pointless to just lie there when I could be drinking coffee and reading the news. Di came down soon after seven. In theory, there was no need for the school run. Ellie had been at Poppy's overnight and went to the school's breakfast club with her. Theory is all very fine, but when Ellie forgot to pick up her school shoes, it meant grandpa had to collect them from Zoe's and deliver them to Ellie at the breakfast club.

We were able to head to the shops much earlier than usual. For some reason, we seemed to spend far more than usual. The car's boot was packed and, having dropped Di at Zoe's, I wrestled the shopping into the correct cupboards, fridges, freezers, and drawers by myself... completely unsupervised!

Di had been vacuuming and washing the floors at Zoe's. By the time I was able to go and help, it was all but done. My main contribution was retrieving the bins after they had been emptied this morning. We headed back home for a cup of tea and some lunch. We had about 30 minutes of downtime before having to collect Ellie for her appointment in Chichester. As we prepared to leave, the heavens opened. Whilst there were several heavy bursts, the rain was mostly sporadic.

Having dropped Ellie at her appointment, we strolled along to a nearby cafe and enjoyed a decent coffee and some very tasty Danish pastries. An hour later, we collected Ellie and took her home. While there, I tried to fix a faulty latch on one of the windows, but concluded it needed a professional. Zoe will have to call a fitter.

We cooked dinner for Zoe and Ellie to try to keep her off her leg. Di collected them and took them back, and I managed the cooking and clearing up. Teamwork at work.

Knees Up

 oe was off work today, so that meant we had a leisurely start. We nipped around to collect Ellie for school.  She was not her usual chirpy self, and by the time we were ready to leave, she burst into tears. She knew Zoe was due at the hospital for her knee procedure, and she was worried. We calmed her down, and by the time we got to school, she was calm and, whilst not chirpy, was at least ready for the day.

There had been some debate over whether Di was going to Pilates. The issue was that she was having some meds delivered. They phoned at nine and said they would be with us between eleven and twelve. That quashed any hopes for Pilates, as I would be at the Nuffield with Zoe. We adjusted the day's schedule and sat down for a quiet coffee.

I collected Zoe and took her to the hospital. We had to wait for a little while, but she was soon called through to radiology. There, they used ultrasound to guide the procedure. The cyst was aspirated, and steroids were injected into the site. Fifteen minutes later, she walked out (on crutches) and declared, "That's it. Let's go home." She chatted to Diane on the phone the whole way home, and I helped to get her settled.

Back home, Di's meds had arrived, so we had a gap in the schedule until we had to collect Ellie. I used the time to return to a problem I had been having with the new network monitor I had installed. It took about an hour, but I finally got to the bottom of the issue, and the monitor seems to be running well now.

We had some Kindle time, and I finished another book, then we went to collect Ellie from football. We took her to her friend, Poppy's, where she will be staying overnight, going straight to school from there in the morning. (We did leave Poppy's mum our phone numbers in case Ellie had a wobble, in which case she could come back here.

Molar Mining

 There was no need for the alarm clock this morning, partly because Jasper had started yelling at us at five, and also because Zoe had a late start.  At the appointed hour, we trundled off to Zoe's and collected Ellie. We dropped her off at school, then headed home for breakfast.

There was no early walk today as I had a dental appointment. I enjoyed my morning porridge and then drove into Chichester. Surprisingly, the dentist was running to time, so I was dragged in and strapped down while she checked all of my teeth. This included a set of X-rays. I had pointed out a tooth that had lost its filling back in January. She examined it and decided it needed some attention, so I have been booked back in for late July to have the tooth rebuilt.

There was a lot of stress this morning. Some injections that Di has to start taking had not been delivered. Worse still, when she chased them, the pharmacy (at Haywards Heath hospital) said they only received the request yesterday (though it was marked as urgent). This is a process that Di started on the 1st of June. Anyway, after much to'ing and fro'ing, the situation now seems to be under control. The meds should be delivered tomorrow.

Talking of meds, Di also had a batch waiting for her at the local pharmacy. I used this as an excuse for a walk. I'm glad I took a large shopping bag with me, as she seemed to be refreshing the whole stock.

We had some quiet time after lunch. I then went to collect Ellie from school and take her home. I was going to take her to football practice this evening, but she has decided not to go.

Ache

We could have done without an early start after the very late night last night. That's not how life works, however. So it was that I was up at 6:30 to greet Ellie when she was dropped off. Everything went fairly smoothly until Ellie had finished breakfast and started complaining of a tummy ache. In the end, she was quite distressed, so we kept her out of school for the morning. Fortunately, she felt better after a while, and we were able to take her in at lunchtime.

We heard from Maureen. Chris had been operated on during the night and would have a further operation today. He was being kept sedated in the meantime.

I went for my morning walk, and by the time I got back, Diane was on one of her regular phone calls with her friend Marilyn. Ellie was watching some TV, doing some drawing and even playing some chess. It was clear that she would be fine to go to school later.

We deliberately had a quiet afternoon with our Kindles. We might even have succumbed to a nap. We collected Ellie from athletics club and took her home. The doors are now locked, and we don't expect to emerge until morning.

A&E

 We had a nice, lazy start to the day. There was nothing significant on the schedule; we could just please ourselves.

Diane pottered around, but was interrupted by Zoe calling for a long chat. In the end, it was nearly midday before she managed to get upstairs to wash and dress. I, meanwhile, had settled in the study. I fiddled some more with the NetAlertX monitor and completed the documentation for its build. I then set about installing (via Docker) a product called "PiHole". This sits on the home network and takes over the role of DNS server, but in doing so, it checks a list of blocked domains and discards any data from them. This has the effect of discarding the vast majority of advertisements that usually populate many websites. Once installed, I tested it from the MacBook and iPad and also Diane's iPad. I will leave it for a day or so, and assuming no problems arise, I will implement it across the home network. With that finished, I documented it, then performed a full system backup of "snowyowl".

During the afternoon, Di pottered in the garden while I had some Kindle time.

As we were finishing dinner, we got a call from Maureen (our neighbour). Could we take Chris to A&E? Well, of course. The trouble was I had had a couple of beers, so Di had to do the driving. Chris (who had had significant surgery a couple of years back) was in absolute agony. We got him to the hospital as quickly as we could and wheeled him into A&E. As soon as he was taken through (as an emergency) we left, giving Maureen instructions to call us when she was ready to come home.

Back home, we settled down and watched the World Cup football and several follow-on programs. In the end, it was gone 1 o'clock before Maureen was ready to come home. They were going to operate on Chris, and there was nothing she could do until morning. She had called one of their sons, and he was coming down to be with her overnight and take her back to the hospital tomorrow. We climbed in the car and collected Maureen to bring her home. 

It was nearly 2 o'clock before we got to bed, but at least Chris was in good hands, and Maureen was safely home.